They might have to wait until your next visit to experience it hands on, but tease them by using a dildo on yourself during Skype sex (feel free to keep your face out of it if you want). Have them use a vibrator on their clit and watch their orgasmic expression when the toy brings them to climax. Dare your partner to wear a butt plug throughout your entire Skype chat, or keep one in all day and message back and forth to see how they're enjoying it.Next level: New high-tech sex toys, such as the We-Vibe Sync, come with apps that let you play together even when you and your partner are apart, Singh says.
Singh suggests having each partner write down a list of their fantasies. Watch some porn or read erotica and take note of what gets your blood flowing. Communication becomes even more crucial when in a long-distance relationship, and as Singh says, that includes your dirty talk. “A lot of people don’t even vocalize what turns them on," Singh says.
Then, describe exactly what you're doing and how it feels in vivid detail. Don't panic if your dirty talk or role-play hits a snag.