Dating advice for the over 40 crowd


But when you are the one in that very same situation, would you really care about what other people would think?In love, there should be no limitations and people over 40 dating are far more capable of loving and sustaining a relationship.Yours will too.) Here are your action steps: • Write your list of qualities, values, and behaviors that attract you and that you expect in a man with whom you spend time.• Review your list and decide: does this man exist?



I did it for about 30 years and I experienced all the hurt, confusion, frustration, hopelessness, boredom, and exhaustion that comes with it. There are about 45 million single men over the age of 35 in the United States, about 7 million in Britain and 2 million in Australia. And before you say…but, Bobbi, these aren’t quality men. If you’re like I used to be as a single gal, it’s because it gives you permission to stay the same and stay single. Unless he spits when he talks, smells, or is drunk; give him a chance.When you go on dates, feel empowered by the fact that you have a lot of years of experience to draw from as you try to figure out a new person and to determine whether the two of you make a good fit.Think of the lessons you’ve learned as a result of previous relationships and friendships.Out of this you will begin to refine your list of must-have’s, nice to have’s and who cares/what was I thinking.